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[quote] Why Some people meteoric rise and some people are poor?
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in this world, full of talented Their adequacy, learning-rich five cars, and even has the ability to heaven into the earth, but why impoverished eventually ended in failure, nothing of the end? What many are not able to talented people who went, too proud? Two shoulders are carrying a head, ruined our lives Why so different?
The reason is that ways of the world! In a way, it knows the score, to determine a person's life is a meteoric rise, or are poor,UGG Boots!
Almost all successful cattle people, without exception, understand this. They read the social and interpersonal nature of the unspoken rules, know what each other, know each other in a thinking mind - in order to catch fish, we should like to think like a fish! You can almost see him run around hard work, but quietly, he had already achieved their goals in life. What is the password to their success? Is actually very simple, ways of the world just words!
Chulai Hun people, we must understand the ways of the world! This is a basic requirement. If you do not know the score, a person also Chu Laihun what? Because doomed from the outset there is no possibility of success, so toss down just wasted energy. The ways of the world use one pair of skilled people, even the beginning of some poor, Chu Laihun is promising, as long as he mastered the unique skills, sooner or later be able to usher in the fate of the turn. Even if you are a martial arts master, if do not know the score, but also mixed with not a long time, certainly the point of desperation mingled. This is the truth. As long as you think about it a little brain can come up with the fact that many around. You will find really smart people doing things right, impermeable to water, not only gain the real benefits, but also came to a good name; while others are sharp tongue but a soft heart, a lot of someone else's busy, but not one that he is good, training a lot of enemies around. This is mostly do not know ways of the world's sake.
students easy, living is easy, life is not easy. Everyone must face the harsh competition! Because do not know the score, the history of many famous hero who helped, and finally ended in failure is the fate of Heaven - they do not fall under the sword of the enemy, but unjustly at the hands of their own people. Cross the blood splash, brains painted, the world's nowhere to be sold regret it. Even if there are also regrets too late. Their brilliant life, so miserably. Written with blood and brains so painful advice, how can we know?
Chu Laihun difficult, a good mix even more difficult. Believe it will be destitute, nothing. Not a cause, even if you Caigaobadou, educated car, will be reduced to nothing! If a successful career, even if it is a Jiunangfandai, will be touted as a genius! Human well-being, inconstancy, and this is the cruel reality of the place. Chinese people too much, too much pressure to survive, to the outside Hunde Hao, mixed up a whatever, you must understand that their Indeed, life is like a game, do not understand the rules of the game will eventually die ugly, and the skillful use of the rules of the game people can enjoy yourself in the game, have fun, play out what you want all!
This is a dare to speak the truth of the book, a thousand unspoken rules gave away the book!
Chu Laihun each person must read!
blood and brains of our ancestors who used to write down the advice
There is no eternal friends nor eternal enemies, only permanent interests. In fact, the nature of human interaction is an exchange of interests. If you do not understand the principle of exchange of interests, all have their own benefits pocketed, stunning talent, even if only become useless paper!
Never look down on those who now looks very vulgar. Years later, they are perhaps the most impressive person.
edge too exposed no food - which is fallen down over the blood and brains of our ancestors who wrote with advice! Any big business who should practice good When wisdom is wisdom, when ignorance is ignorance. If necessary, install or install a
fortune-teller's stall on the bridge the old man, just get the beard will be able to impersonate the master, who looks like a very shrewd to fool people. Why can it succeed? Human nature dictates good fortune. The inherent nature, is not read for a few days If you can not understand this world good fortune to find a normal person, I can not hesitate to give you a million!
from an alternative point of view, Xianpinaifu human nature to promote the social development. If everyone like poverty and backwardness, then who are willing to engage in manual labor? Who is willing to engage in mental creation? Where to eat, wear, use and live? This society will stagnate or even backwards! Therefore, we should Xianpinaifu as a social norm.
what other people put their own hard-earned lunch to give you? In other words, you will own hard-earned lunch to others? If you think it can, then why believe others can do it? Therefore, instead of the unfounded hopes in others, it is better to work hard themselves, earn their own lunch!
the face of those quiet, joy, anger, without form or color, we need to speak and act very carefully, not eager to expose their cards to him. The subtlety of these people are often very deep, calculating more, if you speak and act less consideration, it is easy to grasp the handle he, in turn, use you!
among relatives and friends were largely limited to the same trouble, but can not share the blessing. Between employers and employees, are mostly only with good fortune, but not fair-weather.
not smart people are not afraid, afraid too smart. Smart one too far will be blind, it will arrogant, will uppity and forget, at this time appears to be very smart people in fact have been equal to half a
ancient disaster, the vast majority of those who are smart people, smart people now fear not the extreme, this is stupid.
a beautiful woman to show off their beauty, we began to get ugly. A wise man to show off their smart, you start to get stupid! A talented person, when to show off his talents, it became worthless!
10% if the profit is reasonable, you can get 11% of the original, but still the best way to get 9%, because only this will be the follow-up of the business flow freely.
mix of people in official circles to be careful everywhere, always pay attention. Even if you honor the lifetime, if the last made a big mistake, so life may be ruined. Life is so wonderful. Life is like farming, is the final harvest assessment standards.
The effect may only mid-stream; just come to expect if a mid-stream, the effect can only be achieved by Mo Liu; only Moliu if desired, may finally get nothing at all.
in some special occasions, some smart people, the location of the initiative will lead to the other, while he willingly play the supporting role. This is not a failure, and even can say that this is a strategic win, he let out a main character in name only, while the won is really affordable.
There is a saying: For this reason, countries can now promote a harmonious society, its core meaning is moderate, not extreme and let the world go to extremes.
Chinese people for a life more precious, more precious face there. You to the foot of his face, he will give you all enough! But if you hurt his face and self-esteem, he would have hated you, you push him completely the opposite! Do not use emotional
way to criticize others, with particular attention to the sake of discussion, to avoid the evaluation of other people's personality, interests and family upbringing. Criticism, if proposed solutions are more constructive, while not forgetting the positive strengths of others. In addition, if the criticism can use humor, language, the effect is often better. But to give you a piece of advice: best not to criticize.
hear sweet talk is everyone's weakness, no one has an easy mark. Almost all the world like to listen to sweet talk women, many women is because men marry the wrong person's sweet.
wisest emotional investment techniques is timely, not the icing on the cake.
give subordinates played rough start, let them know your powerful, and then slowly relax the scale, so that they appreciate your concession and easy-going. This is the CEO's management wisdom.
each other, then no matter how ugly, we have to let each other finish, listen to what he would like to express in the end.
God always love those who silence and forbear. Young people to see the scenery, we do not envy jealousy. Work as long as perseverance, positive life seriously, everyone will usher in their own success! To catch live fish
, we should like to think like a fish. No matter how much you personally like strawberries, fish, and will not ignore it; their favorite only to fish worms as bait, it will be hooked.
a Shien Hui people in person, do not miss this heart, and do not let others praise publicity out, even if it is a bucket of grain to pay can also be Wan fight in return. A property to help others, and always ask others to return him, even if the pay million ounces of gold, it is difficult to have a penny of merit.
there is such a classic formula: desire - strength = pain level. When the desire far more than strength, in any case can not be achieved, is a most painful time, it is easy to extremes.
when a person is too proud, often the most dangerous.
pocketed a good thing not a person, to be distributed to everyone at some of
narrow path, to stay one step and the People's Bank; taste of thick, cut one-third of people try. This is the inexperienced one Bliss method.
narrow road, to stay one step so that others can go; enjoy the meal, to share a little to someone else to eat. Conduct themselves in society is the best way to succeed.
a child, my father always told me: you will be pushed aside.
I grow up into the community, tempered and complex reality of human relationships, so I completely understand the profound meaning of this sentence.
a person only knows this truth, enlightenment successful people's success can be the reason. For example, children playing games together, including a child hungry, they took out delicious cakes, just the people to see. At this time, he has two options: share a little for everyone, or they pocketed. Choice is made in an instant, but it can lead to life different results.
1. distributed to everyone. Because a small partner to get food, like him, support him. From that moment on, his peers in the group emerged as the leader of a small group of well-deserved,UGG Boots, will become a man of great appeal.
2. himself pocketed. No one else, all stuffed into his mouth to eat. Cake is his, no question. But we all take him as a cheapskate, after no one to play with him. He lost a wolf in the team the opportunity to take the lead, but lost the trust of the team, is another turn into a narrow alley. Growth along this path, he will very likely is the ordinary people.
a casual choice, decided to human life. Understand this truth, you will underestimate the need to share it? You know, not all things are quitting brave victory, at the right time to know how to share, so that everyone can get benefits, the last one will wear the winner's crown!
coexistence between people, often not a single choice - you do not have him, but a number of options, you can win. Some people do not understand, they only know break the death, not you die that I live. The struggle for fame and severely beaten, die example, often staged around us. Such people did not always realized that, to step in when necessary, but give yourself greater benefits.
a young civil servant, graduated from the elite, talented, go anywhere with an pointing country, but myself momentum. He felt that other people are like ants useless, unworthy of your competitors.
how the results like? Department where my colleagues join forces to form an alliance with the . A person is in this environment, in order to make something, then it is prohibitively difficult!
Finally, the young people of course do not do, go where all run into a wall, a talented cast can not be trapped in the belly, or even no place to complain! Thus, lambasted the leadership, colleagues do not pity, he did not fall in front of each person a good impression. At this point, the unit given to him on the back of the chair to go.
exclusive benefits, but just want to drop a nothing, you say the poor are not poor? There is a saying: Understand the distribution of benefits, in fact, a thorough understanding of the nature of human nature, social truth.
erratic, bumpy road of life. In the dead end road of life where you know the truth concession step; go past the place, but also must be given to the convenience of one-third of people, so as to good luck, smooth sailing.
stay a step to one-third, leaving a way out not only to others but also to broaden the wonderful resources of interpersonal strategy. You let him step today, and tomorrow he will pay you two steps, is equal to delivery of a good friend in the community to open a door to success. If you do not understand the principle of equal opportunity, those who have themselves pocketed the benefits, even if the stunning talent can only be useless paper! If the learning points to share doctrine, the benefits of the benefits to everyone, so to balance each person's psychological, so I am sure you will work together to help you smooth and successful.
Almost all successful Most of them were spending billions of dollars to get people to follow their own benefits, so dead, fire and water. Even the most astute business persons who are also pursuing the idea. For example, a large project, obviously they have the ability to undertake, we must pull together partners to develop, in order to show their people.
fact is the case, the most dangerous conceit, we have the soup is the King of the Road! The life skills method, thousands of years in China has been pursuing the Know how the life skills methods, to determine a person's life is rocky or smooth sailing!
edge too easily exposed
not eat up as sleeping eagle, tiger line like disease, it means that people grab at bite people. So the gentleman is not exposed to bright, talented do not succeed, have either shoulder hung huge force.
eagle standing look like to fall asleep, as if the tiger walking lazy inability to get sick, in fact, this is their means of feeding eating smart. So really smart people do not want to show off, do not show promise, so have the ability to do great things cause dry.
edge too easily exposed did not eat - which is fallen down over the blood and brains of our ancestors who wrote with advice! Unfortunately, many people just do not understand this. They consider themselves extremely intelligent, capable, to see who is rubbish, only that he is a flower, nothing looked down. This person most likely did not eat, or even lose their lives for this.
we heard While there is good talent, but of ability, can not go around all day on his head to show off. Like wealth, as the money of course is a good thing, but you will wear gold and silver every day, put the money box to the streets to show off it?
talent is fundamental to the success of a person, a talented person can get a lot of performance opportunities, an incompetent person, even if the performance of their own publicity and can not succeed. But a person who is too talented to show off themselves and to suppress the performance space of others, damage the interests of others, everyone is bound to lead to the same hate. If developed to this point, his future and career is very dangerous, at any time to be voted out! Three late Zhuge Ke, Zhuge Liang's brother Zhuge Jin's son. After the door, strict tutor, when he was a small show of imaginative agility, talent extraordinary qualities, we all think he can be more than his father Zhuge Jin. However, Zhuge Jin not to have such a good son happy, but that Zhuge Ke family will bring misfortune. Why? Zhuge Jin said: What are their best, arrogant, and ultimately lead to public outrage, is designed to kill the ministers, the family has also been implicated Zhumie.
in this world, but was excluded talented people everywhere. Their talent in hand, like having one handed Sword, everyone to brag about it, get in the hands of four waving, fear of other people do not know that he was some stunning, silly to put myself who want to play the adult tree live targets. They see themselves at the foot of the fire pit,UGG Boots, and thus unwittingly fell into.
talent like a double-edged sword, can stab people, would hurt myself, so it should be used cautiously, usually should be inserted in the scabbard. In many cases, too exposed edge will lead to resentment and trap the villain. Any big business people, should practice Hung Ying-ming in the When wisdom is wisdom, when ignorance is ignorance, stupidity is also an intellectual. If necessary, install an installed
When a person suffered a setback, may complain cry - I am so talented, why have ended in failure destitute, nothing in the end? Heaven is really unfair! Heaven is really unfair to you? No, he do not understand the basic ways of the world's sake. All this is of his own making. When he faced defeat in life, should self-reflect on it? It went too far? Is arrogant, too highlight their own, ignoring the feelings of everyone? Since that is highly intelligent, others are foolish? If such a person reflect on something, you can find the problem, then symptomatic treatment, such as crystal after insight, it really matured up!
open One reason is that the villain is too treacherous cruelty, on the other hand is it not because the victims do not know Yu Yun Chu possession of intelligence? They thunder too unassuming, too talented talent, while arrogant, is not looked down on the side of his colleagues, such a person does not lose his head strange.
the Western world there is a saying: In interpersonal relationships, we must not try to be smart, really smart to learn - I do not know music should not only know how to stretch; only know how to retreat into the unknown; only know how to self-expression, I wonder if keeping a low profile. In this case, we even adequacy, are still empty-handed!
walking in the community, each of us must master this low-key man forbear his secrets. More thoughtful, less hard-edged, do not put the belly of the If you do not understand this truth, which goes more of the baby, someone else will eventually become a foregone conclusion!
anxious rabbits will bite, do not give the opponent the way never pushed Du Xing
espionage, to put him a path. If only one of the nothing content, such as plug Shuxue who do all the path are stuffed, then all good things all carry bite.
eradicate evil, put an end to the villain, there should be to rehabilitate them to stay a way out. If forcing the other party no place, like the mouse can escape blocked the export of all, it's in desperate circumstances to give you all the good things all the bad bite. Why
anxious rabbit will bite it? You know, the rabbit could have been docile animal, not a last resort it will not fight back. But if the road was never pushed, it will definitely desperate!
Because of this reason, the underdog can not fight, fight anxious to tell you will be pounced hard. Do not chase tottering foe, because the crushed worm, dying, will you cause unnecessary harm. How to get to know the basic common sense. Leave a way out to the other, you benefit from the infinite. Some people like adding insult to injury, wipe out, the results of it, the opponent will never kill without a break, their foothold but more and more narrow.
Eastern Han Dynasty, the general led his army to attack the Huns sinus solid. Zhezhi Xiongnu only 500, flying from the depths of the desert comes, is to take advantage of people's grain harvest during the snatch. But they soon started going off, it was sinus solid soldiers and horses in a valley surrounded. Han valley on both sides of the export block a leak, but continuous inward attack a dozen times, did not get it wiped out a mere 500 people. Huns to form a circular array, hiding behind a rock, throw out constantly, Taniguchi lying over the Han soldiers. Seeing
sinus solid, ordered his men to withdraw to the side exit of the soldiers, leaving the other side of the exit. Men puzzled: final victory, has suffered heavy casualties, so that I have to put them out in the chase, beheaded them. After seeing with the way out, Pinmingdexiang north to escape, as if frightened, scattered formation, were fretting, and no one will think back hard with the Han. Han cavalry led sinus solid in the back to keep a certain distance, with bow and arrow to shoot continuously, less than a day, on the elimination of this invasion of the enemy unit.
soldiers who set the resurrection. This principle is very easy to understand, if we pushed the enemy dead end, do not see a little hope, but they will be most drastic with us to break the death of fish. At this time the enemy is all Tiger, all of them backs against the wall. If we want to win the war can not be so easy! Even if the final win, has to pay a heavy price, not any good.
in history, like the resurrection of this home are common. Spring and Autumn Period, Qi Yan invasion of the Yue, Jimo City, not only to attack down. They are around the wearer, stormed the tight play. Then the Qi has come to the edge of dying suddenly famous Tian Dan Qi rallying cry: lost ground. Let us assume this: If YAN Jun Jimo City in attack to put the other party when a way out, they will rush to escape, how morale at all? Even if another local battles, the other because of the failures, as scary, and most easy to deal with an opponent, can be described as the weakest link. Awarded a knife cut off this part, how numerous the reason?
business field as well. Gensheng Mengniu president, said: forced to run away, they often own the mothers, and even pay the cleaners. Nowhere to go because the other side, when, like a rabbit must be kicking eagle, to the crazy strategy fatal blow to us! Thus, even if we win the match, and he is Shangdebuqing. In this case, it is hardly a victory, but the defeat of the unbeaten.
Shanghai has a trading company owner, business particularly severe, the use of large group of local monopolies. His favorite poem is Mao Zedong's Shot sinister, not aggressive, so the expansion quickly.
However, this offended many people, especially those who have lost this source of wealth, they can not find another way out of people. In this business is flourishing, reached its peak of fame, some collected by his opponents to defeat him in an investment in collusion, the evidence of secret operations, reporting to the Economic Investigation Department. This high-handed full business empire, so instant a sudden collapse.
acted, this principle applies. We always ran into all sorts of people, many people may be exposed weaknesses and errors, this time pressing harder and harder if you seize someone else's error hit in the end, do not give a little face, do not give each other a little grace. In this way, the other will be tit for tat with you, decorum leather bucket in the end, not his death is your death! Not only do you not normal between friends, and could become a generation of enemies. This is to expand your circle of contacts is very negative, this will seriously affect your future career development.
We must know how to For those who have no injury affected much of the small error, it should be generous enough to give each other space to correct an adjustment, if necessary, can even help each other to cover it. As a result, you gain not only heartfelt gratitude, as well as the support of people dead!
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